Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Funny, I don't feel any older

But I am. I'm officially 30. I don't know what the big deal is, so far it seems okay to me.

My mom sent me a hat I used to wear in 9th grade and a box of prunes for my birthday.

B looks prettier in the hat than me. Maybe he should dress up like Blossom for Halloween.

My mom sent more presents, but I'm not opening those until later tonight after I go out for Ethiopian food with Marci, Pain, Cuft, Corrie, and Vixen.
Analog didn't want to wait. She wanted to open my presents last night.

Then she decided hanging out in a box lid full of newspaper with The Bus would be more fun.

I'm looking forward to spending the post-dinner part of my evening with the kitties and Dr. Gregory House until B gets home from work.

On a semi-related birthday note, earlier this week, EZ sent around this poem by Maya Angelou:

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …
enough money within her control to move out
and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
a youth she’s content to leave behind….

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to
retelling it in her old age….

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ….
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE
one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who lets her cry…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored…

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .
a feeling of control over her destiny.

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to fall in love without losing herself.

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that she can’t change the length of her calves,
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
that her childhood may not have been perfect…but its over…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
how to live alone… even if she doesn’t like it…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW..
whom she can trust,
whom she can’t,
and why she shouldn’t take it personally…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
where to go…
be it to her best friend’s kitchen table…
or a charming inn in the woods…
when her soul needs soothing…

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW…
what she can and can’t accomplish in a day…
a month…and a year…

It made me think that now that I'm 30, I probably need a black lace bra. And I've decided to get a moisturizer that contains SPF. I've got the cordless drill, amazing friends, my own furniture, B, and dishware, so once I get some undergarments and lotion, I'll be all set. I'm pretty lucky.

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